Food, water, clothing, shelter and sex are human beings basic requirements. Oh yes I used the three-letter-word but yes it is. Any person who has attained puberty needs some kind of sexual pleasure along with emotional and physical requirements. It’s not that you will die without sex but yes after a certain age frustration or dissatisfaction will definitely creep in. And people can go to any lengths to cure that dissatisfaction.
Coming back to the basic requirements, for everyone Mom is the best cook. Everyone is brand-conscious. Everyone prefers mineral over regular water. Home is more comforting than the luxuries of the best hotels. But when you are away, you can’t carry Mom everywhere. If Westside doesn’t have your size on a particular day, doesn’t mean you won’t shift to Globus in urgency. Same is the case with sex. I am not saying if you don’t have a girlfriend when you are away means that you will sleep with someone else. I am just saying it happens. And if it does that doesn’t mean you don’t love your girlfriend.
Love and sex are two different things. It’s great if you get sex from the same person you love, but more often than not you can get intimate with a person you don’t love. Intimacy is not the measure of love. Love is way too strong a feeling to be compared to the mere requirements of intimacy. Sex is needed. Love happens. So physical attraction towards someone and love towards someone else can happen. And that doesn’t stop you from loving that person. These are two different feelings which can happen for different people at one time. Yes but if the attraction part, if any, takes over love then you know it spells trouble.
So it’s not that if you have got lunch from your place you can’t eat out. Of course you can, perhaps Mom will feel bad, but she loves you and you love her back, she will understand. That’s the logic behind love and sex. We all love our dog, maybe even more than our siblings..but well..err...I hope you get the drift.
Anyway that’s my opinion, you figure out your own
Smile if you like it, laugh if you don’t J
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